After almost two decades of being a mother, my daughters still manage to surprise me. Last week, the day that Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, Part 2 opened in cinemas, Sam started texting me about when we would go and see it. I told her I had asked her father to buy tickets a ... (more)
OMG, my baby’s orange!
Sunday evening. Sam, Speedy and I were chatting while watching TV. Sam was asking about the boat shoes that I was supposed to buy Speedy for his birthday earlier this month but which we ended up not buying because the ones we found were too narrow. Don’t ask anymore why “boat shoes.” That’s what Speedy ... (more)
Playing house
If you’re familiar with the 1986 film About Last Night, there’s a part where the lead female character Deborah describes to her friend, Joan, the dining arrangement she has with her live-in partner, Danny. Two nights a week, I cook. Two nights a week, he cooks. Two nights, we go out. And then, there’s sandwich ... (more)
Have you seen a shadow play?
Yesterday was Speedy’s birthday. Last night was also the last performance of a shadow play (another production of Spot, CSB‘s theater group) for which Alex was one of the two people who designed the lighting. Of course, we went. We always go to her plays. The plan was to see the play then have a ... (more)
The world didn’t end on May 21, 2011 but we had end-of-the-world brownies
Three weeks ago, the world was supposed to have ended. At least, according to some theories. Of course, I didn’t believe any of it. We had a small lunch party scheduled for the following day so Sam and I spent end-of-the-world-day, May 21, 2011, shopping for food stuff for the party. Driving home with her ... (more)
My husband, my marriage and the divorce bill
Before I put up that section that Sam wants, the family conversations “too hilarious not to be shared with the entire world,” I want to say something about Speedy. And I want to say it now because once the section that Sam wants is up (it’s mostly about her father’s booboos), Speedy might not talk ... (more)
I love learning from my daughter
I know some parents who feel threatened and insecure when they realize that their children know things that they don’t. I don’t feel that way about my children. In fact, I enjoy learning from them. For instance. We were at Cape Bojeador and we were killing time because we wanted to still be there when ... (more)
Dishes I cook better than anyone in the world
The girls and I were watching the rerun of Junior Masterchef Australia and one of the earliest episodes was on. The 50 qualifiers were being trimmed down to 12 and a batch was asked to cook a dish that they felt they cooked the best — “the dish that you cook better than anyone else ... (more)
Family trip: Baguio, Vigan, Laoag (Part 1)
The original plan was to drive up to Baguio, spend a couple of nights there, drive north to Vigan, spend a night there, drive north to Laoag, spend a night there, drive south to La Union, spend a night at a beach resort then go back to Manila. For non-Filipinos and Filipinos living abroad who ... (more)




































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