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Manila by night

manila-by-nightThere are lots of reasons why I wanted to post this photo. First, I waited more than two weeks to take it. I stayed with Sam on her first night at the condo and when I saw the view from the balcony, I swore that I’d bring a camera next time and have a ball capturing the city lights of Manila by night.

Second, I stayed in that condo for an entire day while Sam was at school and the experience was both surprising and unsettling.

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Welcome home dinner

pasta-pesto-bread-pork-steaksBecause Sam is only home on weekends, I pamper her with home cooked meals. Last week, it was lengua with mushrooms sauce and homemade pizza. Last night, I went the extra mile — pasta with white sauce and mushrooms, pork steaks and home made pesto bread (that’s why the bread is greenish — it’s ALL THAT PESTO!). Yes, I baked the bread. My arms ached from the kneading but I was darn happy with the result…

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College, Dinner and SEx

Sam stays in a rented condo five days a week. No one cooks for her, no one wakes her up in the morning, no one picks up her dirty clothes… And she’s doing fine. We talk on the phone everyday, we exchange long chatty text messages, we talk about school… Still, it hasn’t been easy ... (more)

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Part of Sam’s voodoo doll collection

voodoo-dollEvery place we go, if Sam sees voodoo dolls for sale, she has to buy one. And she really loved photographing her collection of voodoo dolls. I was icing some mini cakes one time and she volunteered to take step-by-step photos of the procedure. I thank her profusely. But when I downloaded the images to my computer… lo, and behold! She gave me something extra.

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House rules

Because he pays the electric bill, Speedy has rules. And he gets really upset when his rules are not followed. You know, like switching the lights off when leaving a room or turning the TV off before going to sleep. But because he has this nasty habit of dozing off almost as soon as his ... (more)

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Alien in Sam’s room

Grasshopper

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Respecting our children

[Today's column] When you buy a book at Powerbooks bookstore, your purchase often comes with a free magazine. Sometimes, it’s the in-house publication which contains a list and reviews of new book titles. Last Sunday, it was a parenting magazine with Lea Salonga on the cover and a snippet from the article she wrote that ... (more)

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She’s off to college

She was the sweetest baby a mother could ask for. She talked before she walked but she never went through the “baby talk” stage. A part of me wishes that she can always be my baby but that would be selfish. Sam is 16, she’s going to college and, in less than two weeks, I’ll ... (more)

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Body language of uncooperative daughters

Sam and Alex Veneracion

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Rare, medium rare, well done

fried eggs, sunny side up